17 year old Mia agonizes about whether she should go to Julliard to pursue her dream of playing cello professionally even if it means possibly losing her boyfriend Adam and leaving her family and friends behind. But one snowy February morning, when Mia takes a drive with her family, one tragic instant leaves Mia with a choice more agonizing than any she’s faced before.
I don’t think I’ve ever read a novel about death that was so life affirming and ultimately uplifting as this one. As I write this, my cheeks are tearstained and my heart feels like it will burst. As soon as I finish, I plan to call my father and tell him I love him.
It was refreshing to read about a family that was so close, not perfect, but who experienced so many moments of happiness together. Each of the characters, the parents, the little brother, the grandparents, the aunt and uncle, the best friend and the boyfriend, has their own defining moment(s) that makes them seem achingly real.
99% of this novel was pitch perfect - moving but not manipulative. Gayle Forman is a formidable writer who is as comfortable writing humorous scenes as she is the tearjerkers. There was just one scene that I really could have done without – a cringe-worthy flashback with Mia and Adam that reminded me too much of that cheesy animal cookie scene between Liv Tyler and Ben Affleck in the movie Armageddon.
If I Stay will be released April 2nd in hardcover and I wholeheartedly recommend it. Stay tuned – it *might* just turn up in a giveaway here in the next couple of days.
What a wonderful review! How could I not be persuaded to add this to my ever-growing TBR list.
ReplyDeleteAll of my co-workers have read this book, but I've been avoiding it for some reason. After your review, though, I think I'll add it to my list.
ReplyDeleteGreat review, thanks! I didn't like the sound of this book originally, but you've sparked interest! I may have to check it out. Cheers!
ReplyDeleteGreat review! I loved this book, it's brilliant.
ReplyDeleteAdded to my list! Thanks for the review. :)
ReplyDeleteGreat review, I can't wait to read this book!
ReplyDeleteI want everyone to read this book - it's my top pick for 2009 so far. It's so hopeful (just like Lenore said) and I was moved in a way that I haven't felt before. Gayle's achieved something wonderful here.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful review Lenore.
I really enjoy books that pack an emotional punch like this and really affect the reader. It sounds wonderful and I'll definitely be looking for a copy (=
ReplyDeleteLol. I loved that cheesy animal cookie scene in Armageddon!
ReplyDeleteYour review makes me want to read this, right now.
Btw, I've just added you on my blogroll, and wondered if u would be up for a link exchange?
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I loved this book and I'm so glad it moved you the same way it did me as well!
ReplyDeleteI've read two lines of this on a teaser tuesday and now I want to read it!
ReplyDeleteWow, what an amazing review! I'm adding this one to the TBR list immediately!
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh, any book that stirs emotions like that sounds wonderful. I'm adding it to my wish list.
ReplyDeletethe storyline looks so sweet! I'll be reading this one :)
ReplyDeleteI want this book! It has been on my WL since the first time you mentioned it.
ReplyDeleteGreat review, just makes me want to read this one even more!
ReplyDeleteYeah this book was near perfect! It handles a really hard subject in a way that I look forward to reading the book, usually depressing subject matter = depressing book, but not this book!
ReplyDeleteAww Lenore you made me want to read this book more than ever. If the rumor(?) of If I Stay being made into a movie is true, it'll be super duper great!
ReplyDeleteWow, that sounds really good.
ReplyDeleteI'll read it for sure!
Sounds great! Good review!
ReplyDeleteWow Lenore, this novel really sounds worth the read. Thanks for such a great review.
ReplyDeleteGreat review! I definitely want to read this now. I'll have to wait a while. After crying while reading Marley & Me earlier this week, I think I want to stick with happier books for a while! Once I need a good cry I'll have to pick this one up. ;)
ReplyDeleteThis looks really sad, but also very hauntingly beautiful. I want to read it, but damn, so depressing sounding!
ReplyDeleteLove the premise here! I've heard good things about this book, and your review confirmed for me that I need to pick it up when it comes out :) I'm up for a good cry!
ReplyDeleteNice review! I really want to read this book. *hopes for giveaway!* I love the cover also. : )
ReplyDeleteSounds good! Great reveiw, I <3 the Armageddon comparison ^_^
ReplyDeleteWhat an excellent review! I loved this book and it's one of my favourites for 2009 so far. I was intrigued to see the cover image as the cover here in Australia is very different. Anyone interested can see it on my blog www.sandyfussell.blogspot.com I'm interested to know which cover everyone likes best
ReplyDeleteBooks like this leave me feeling sad for days and it's nearly impossible to read anything else for at least a week afterwards.
ReplyDeletesounds wonderful. i'm going to come back for the giveaway! :-)
ReplyDeleteFantastic review!! I've seen this in my Booklist magazine this week and marked it to read. Your review totally affirms my decision to read this!!
ReplyDeleteSounds like a great book!
ReplyDeleteLooooveed this book :)Imo, one of the best this year.
ReplyDeleteGreat review.
I can't wait to read this one. Great review.
ReplyDeleteThis does sound really really good, Lenore, thanks for the review!
ReplyDeleteWonderful review, Lenore. I do believe in affirmation, and in hope, on the page.
ReplyDeleteYou know, for the subject matter, I was surprised how humorous it was at times. It was just WOW!
ReplyDeleteIf 99% of this book is as good as you profess, I will be reading it as soon as possible.
ReplyDeleteThis was the book I was most looking forward to in 2009. I am so glad to see it getting such rave reviews!
ReplyDeleteI've written this one down because I definitely want to read it. Great review!
ReplyDeleteThis sounds amazing! One of the things I really enjoy in books is reading about a family that is close-knit, but in a realistic way. It seems most books go in one direction (perfect family) or the other (complete dysfunction) but this book sounds like it will be just right.
ReplyDeleteThe way you said it really makes me want to read this book. I am definitely putting it on my list of books. Of course I will have to read this one when I am not out in public.
ReplyDeleteOkay I read the book, and I kind of know what scene you're referring to (LOL!) but was it Ben Affleck in Armageddon? I can't remember - it's been so long! I thought it was Bruce Willis... I could be horribly wrong and embarrass myself.
ReplyDeleteAnd yeah, I cried too. Really hard.
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Okay you guys are adults and reading this book? I'm only 12 years old and finished this book in 2 hours. Haha. You guys are losers. This book was like the EASIEST book I've read all year.
ReplyDeleteI just finished reading this story, I cried at the ending and this is the best book I have read. I recommend this story to everyone. Great write.
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